CHOSEN WORDS

When you speak to people the words you use are clues that help display your current state of mind. The words you use can leave those that surround you with a neutral, negative or positive view of yourself. A lot of people are judged before they open their mouth and speak because of what they look like, the moment they choose to speak your interpretation of them is either matched by your assumption or surprised by your premature views. Words that are carefully chosen are matched with the intent they were meant for, those who spout out anything on the tip of their tongue might miss out on the logical filter of the mind which is sometimes used to camouflage their true intentions. Opening themselves to a side that is usually hidden by the smiles and compliments that help shower their friendly acquaintances. The naked truth no longer hidden by the power that language can help disguise.

ENTRAPMENT IN DISGUISE

In life we are told how great life can be if we upgrade our possessions and how bigger leads us to a happier lifestyle. Cars are built to go faster but the speed limits stay the same. We are told that we should have more then what our parents have because we've had more opportunities and an easier life, but where does this leave those who are content with living a simple life. If possession shape us then are we all shallow minded or are we just following what seems to make sense that more is better. Those who are famous are made to look like super stars by the media and are supposed to be role models to us mere mortals, but if you take away their publicists they would fade in the crowd. Is this entrapment of our feelings or just great marketing. How can we blame those who use our motivations against us knowing that they are only giving us what we crave. Maybe we sometimes need to take off our beer goggles which effect our mind with negative influences and focus more on how we can affect others in a positive way, which would help us reach a common goal worth reaching.

FRIENDSHIP DENIED

It's sad to see that many people miss out on the connection and appreciation that comes with sharing their life story with their audience because they cant see past their frustrations. Their fears restricting their heart to open to the difference of others opinions, leaving them with only one option to treat others as enemy's of their own beliefs whether they agree with the current discussion or not. It's too hard to see beyond their prejudices especially when they have already made their mind up. Their perspective now blocked by  the unforgiving sunlight of debate, now afraid to enjoy the rays of light beyond their assumptions. Every opportunity taken to stamp in their own version of the truth, removing their ability to listen and trading it for conflict. Their imagination running off with the logic they normally held proud because lateral thinking can not remain open if your mind is closed.

EASY TO PREACH HARD TO SWALLOW

It's so easy to give advice , but it seems to be very hard for some to follow through with their own advice. Why cant those who criticise others use their same cynical views when it comes to making decisions that effect their own lifestyle. Is it because when there not involved with the affects that come with making a rushed decision at the drop of a hat, that everything seems so easy to comprehend. But when their plate is full with an in balance of  tasks over time, the problems they face seem to out weigh anyone else problems. Others related views carry no weight when those who deem their issues more important then every bodies else dilemmas. How you open your heart will leave a reflective outcome.

PAST STRENGTHS TODAYS WEAKNESS

In the past the stronger you were the more people you ruled over, the people who challenged your command would suffer dire consequences. Our current time we a ruled by who is smartest and brain power leads over brutal strength. A civilised world where lawyers are more involved and physical violence is considered unorthodox unless it is controlled by an umpire there to judge what is a clean fight over one that isn't. Money still controls which way people's views sway but how we earn our money is legally limited by the laws in government. The cave man times are now under the table where the lime light is dimmed by corruption and where majority influences can not see the wrong that use to be out in the open with total disregard of society's views. We now have to look harder and find proof to prove that equality is suffering under the false protection of our laws.

TRUTH HIDDEN BEHIND THE LIES

Truth is what you see when someone doesn't have time to prepare for a diplomatic answer. Shock is the response you get when people try to hide their true response with a delayed answer. The truth that is normally hidden in the preparation of a logical answer, which allows the liar optimum time to choose an answer that will camouflage the real truth. The reaction on their face and their body language helps guide you in the right direction by deciphering their real feelings. Their body language can't lie to the questions you ask them, which helps you work out who will be honest and open their heart or who will tell you what ever lie makes them sound wiser.

MY DREAMS NOT YOURS

We are constantly reminded of how we should be living our life and what we are doing is wrong. It seems that if we choose to make different decisions  to what is expected of us then we're off life's tracks. But how can you explain to those who push us rather than guide us with their non biased advice, that we are knowingly choosing to live our life different to others because it's what we want. Our decisions aren't made to get back at someone for a wrong they may have done to us but because we felt that the decision will bust us out of the enclosure that traps and limits our mind in a bubble of dissatisfaction. We know what we want and we want the freedom that comes with it.

DUPLICATED FRIENDS

Friends shelter our unique ability to stand out from the crowd. Where fitting in means becoming a clone of the one you spend all your time with. The respect you have for one another leads you to mimic each others habits and even how you present yourself. Habits that are hard to break because your not sure if they were yours to begin with or just something you've picked up from those who surround you. Strength comes in packs and self analysis gets pushed aside when your to busy to reflect on who you really are and what you really want in life. While trying to perfect yourself, why not blend into the crowd where majority views stand proud whether they are right or wrong. Your true self only shown to your family because its to hard to maintain the act when your in the privacy of your own home.